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choosechoice: Chairwoman Alice Paul, second from left, and...

fivethoughtfulminds — Mon, 05 Nov 2012 19:34:20 -0500

Chairwoman Alice Paul, second from left, and officers of the National Woman’s Party, June 1920. Do you think much has changed since then?

ssbglam: I had the best birthday weekend as usual my friends...

fivethoughtfulminds — Thu, 01 Nov 2012 22:31:14 -0400

ssbglam:

I had the best birthday weekend as usual my friends and family came out and showered me with love. I am another year older, blessed and fortunate for the woman I’ve become. Continuing to learn and to grow each and everyday- My future is bright!

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Dress by Herve Leger, Shoes by Olcay Gulsen, Bracelet by Micheal Kors and BCBG, MakeUp by DollHouse Hair by ME

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election: - Jason

fivethoughtfulminds — Thu, 06 Sep 2012 02:01:29 -0400

election:

- Jason

election: In the convention hall during the DNC. —Photos by...

fivethoughtfulminds — Thu, 06 Sep 2012 01:59:57 -0400

election:

In the convention hall during the DNC.

—Photos by Benjamin Lowy for Tumblr

What Aries Thinks About The Other Zodiac Signs:

fivethoughtfulminds — Wed, 08 Aug 2012 06:06:16 -0400

Taurus: They never want to go anywhere or do anything... but they are so romantic and sweet.
Gemini: I could talk to them for hours and they're okay doing whatever I suggest... but they can be so stone cold sometimes.
Cancer: They are so supportive and caring... but it feels like we're speaking two different languages!
Leo: They are so funny, friendly, and it's like they get me... but they need to get their head out of their ass.
Virgo: They can be so quiet and a bit boring sometimes... but, they're so helpful and competent.
Libra: They are too freaking nice and I don't understand why they don't ever know what they want... but they're not overly smothering and sensitive.
Scorpio: They are so charming and I feel like I can drown in their intensity... but they are just so frustrating and jealous I don't even understand!
Sagittarius: I haven't had this much fun or laughed so much with them... but they can sometimes be a bit harsh even for me and way too often forgetful.
Capricorn: They are so strong and capable and I feel so protected... but why I don't understand their need to take things seriously all the time.
Aquarius: They are so lively and spirited, and I feel like they understand my needs sometimes... but they can be so stubborn and even lazy sometimes.
Pisces: I feel like their hugs heals me in a way, and they don't mind going along with my half-baked ideas... but they seem to think I'm always angry or that I don't care, but I do!

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fivethoughtfulminds — Fri, 03 Aug 2012 01:54:47 -0400

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comeonnowshowme: YAMS!!!! Ohhhhhhhh my lord Instagram...

fivethoughtfulminds — Thu, 12 Apr 2012 03:47:51 -0400

comeonnowshowme:

YAMS!!!!

Ohhhhhhhh my lord

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fivethoughtfulminds — Thu, 12 Apr 2012 03:46:56 -0400

Knowledge for your ass

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fivethoughtfulminds — Thu, 12 Apr 2012 03:45:28 -0400

I want these so bad

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fivethoughtfulminds — Thu, 12 Apr 2012 03:43:27 -0400

The Neglected Heart Where is my Father?, Who is my Father?, Why...

fivethoughtfulminds — Tue, 10 Apr 2012 21:41:19 -0400

The Neglected Heart

Where is my Father?, Who is my Father?, Why doesn’t he want to see me? These are some of the painful questions that children ask when they have never met the man who is supposed to guide and protect them. I was one of the lucky ones who knew my Father, but I too had a sad question why doesn’t he love and respect me. For as long as I can remember I was always told that if a child was to only have one parent in his/her life it should be the mother because she’s the giver of life and the first teacher a child has. I personally think that the father plays a greater role especially in the child’s psychological spectrum. While I’m not disputing the greatness and the value of having a mother that cares, but from my own experiences I can honestly say that my decision making as a man would of been a lot better if I had a father that was more involved my life.

A lot of us men think that it is good enough to just be a provider to a child and buying them what they want proves their value as a man. If they knew just talking to the child would mean so much more then any materialistic things he could afford. I’ve come across numerous adults in my life that have said to me if their father was more involved in there life so much things would of been different. Everytime I hear someone say that I always think to myself a drug dealer wouldn’t be selling drugs if their father was telling/showing them right from wrong. Some prostitutes wouldn’t be on the corner if her daddy was telling her right from wrong. What is it in our heart to make us neglect something so precious as your own flesh and blood.

The Heart is probably the most vital organ in the human body it makes you cry, it makes you sad , and when its neglected it makes you feel alone, Fathers please stop neglecting your child’s heart.

Any fool can have a baby, but it takes a real man to be a father. Furious styles (Boyz N The Hood). - Devon D. Carr

The Opposite of Sex Since the dawn of time men and women have...

fivethoughtfulminds — Tue, 10 Apr 2012 21:32:12 -0400

The Opposite of Sex

Since the dawn of time men and women have always handled and treated sex differently. Most men believe sex is just sex and shouldn’t be so complex, while most women put more thought into the process. Let’s examine both Sexes ways of thinking from my point of view.

Female Perspective: As a man I can honestly say that a woman has way more to lose sexually then a man does. While a man can have as many sexual partners as he wants, a woman can not because of the society we live in, so they tend to treat sex as a long lasting relationship which leaves them to be very selective with there partners. 1. Money: Today’s woman is all about money whether she gets it on her own or from somewhere else, her man has to have money and has be doing very good for himself, in her eyes his best friends last name has to be Grant, Hamilton, and/or Franklin, those guys will have her screaming in the bedroom before you will ever make her climax. 2. Swag/Confidence: Every woman wants her man to have confidence in himself and to believe in himself because it boosts his sex appeal, most women would admit that Jay-z is not the most attractive guy in the world, but his swag, style and persona is through the roof which makes him more appealing. We as men need to remember a woman dosen’t want you to confuse confidence with arrogance, beause she may believe that you think your better then her. 3. Looks/Shape: A man is more vain than a woman (Probably the understatement of the century) ,but a woman still has a ideal Look/Shape she desire her partner to be, some women may like tall men, some may like skinny men. This is the one criteria where it just depends on the individual, but what it all comes down to she just wants to feel comfortable and safe. 4. Mind/Conversation: You ever just seen someone for the first time and you and that individual just click? ,well that’s what most females want, even for casual sex. She wants to know that you’re not a dumb ass. Numerous females have told me that they have seen an attractive guy and would’ve surrendered the pussy if he didn’t open his mouth. Unlike men most females don’t mind having a mental sexual orgasm (Go figure). 5. Convenience: This is a very key criteria for a woman giving you some draws, it has to do with it plenty of issues, how close you are to her, do you drive, do u have any free time, do u get off work in time when she’s needs dick in the worst way and also do u have any kids, yes fellas all those issues and more are rolled in one when it comes to convenience. 6. Character: Please men, do not confuse character with swag or personality, this is very important. Females may date assholes but she doesn’t want her friends and family to know she dates assholes, so whatever u do men please keep your jealous ways and the secrecy of the sex life between you and her. 7. Her Friends: Some may call this the most important criteria, A woman’s friends can change everything between a man and woman. For those of you men who likes to send pics of yourself to woman best believe her friends have seen your package and in some cases they will make the final decision on whether or not you get pussy from her. 8. Size/Style: Last but not least Size/Style, Most women now a days will either know what size your packing or demand to see what size your packing through text message or email, they’re not willing to waste their time on someone they think can’t measure up to what they want sexually. It’s not over though Fellas, if your lucky and blessed enough (LOL) to get past that obstacle, you better perform great in the bedroom, because you would be surprised who she tells and how small the world is.

Advice to Females: With the criteria you have in just finding a man to have sex with, it’s no wonder why you guys don’t have good sex, cause you guys don’t take the time to enjoy sex. Throw away most of the Chilli from TLC rules and just learn to be comfortable with yourself.

Male Perspective: 1. Sex Appeal: The majority of men are aroused just by vision alone more than females, it doesn’t take much to get a man in the mood, but for those picky men out there sex appeal is very important. It takes more than a fat ass, big tits, or how pretty she is. It’s how she carries herself, in other words a woman has to walk and talk like “You are crazy and stupid for not wanting to Fuck with me”. Here’s the key ladies do not tell him that in those words. No man wants a disrespectful, delusional BITCH (Relax ladies it just a word and every woman is not a BITCH). 2. Horny: Yes ladies, it’s as simple as that, we’re just horny, there no explanation or theory to this, I’M HORNY COME OVER OR I’M HORNY WHERE U AT? I’M COMING OVER.

Advice to Males: Sometimes we’re to quick to get in bed with people, a quickie tonight can be a baby for life, so we need take a page from the female criteria and have a little more patience, cause one of the worst things in the history of mankind is having a baby with some one you don’t like, followed by the immediate runner up for the worst thing in the history of mankind CHILD SUPPORT.

A Liberated woman is one who has sex before marriage and a job after- Gloria Steinem. Devon D. Carr ,Follow me on Twitter @Von84Carr.

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fivethoughtfulminds — Thu, 29 Mar 2012 02:36:03 -0400

fashionjunki: want/need. Nice

fivethoughtfulminds — Thu, 29 Mar 2012 02:34:57 -0400

fashionjunki:

want/need.

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fivethoughtfulminds — Sat, 24 Mar 2012 05:30:46 -0400

Me Trying to Get Buff at the gym , Follow me @FTM_Devon

fivethoughtfulminds — Thu, 22 Mar 2012 21:06:52 -0400

Me Trying to Get Buff at the gym , Follow me @FTM_Devon

My Lil Boys got talent , Don’t forget the message. Follow...

fivethoughtfulminds — Sat, 25 Feb 2012 16:45:28 -0500

My Lil Boys got talent , Don’t forget the message. Follow me @FTM_Devon

I Need to finish this Tat

fivethoughtfulminds — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 01:23:15 -0500

I Need to finish this Tat

Greatness , The World’s Best Bowler. Follow me on Twitter...

fivethoughtfulminds — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 01:20:15 -0500

Greatness , The World’s Best Bowler.

Follow me on Twitter @FTM_Devon so we can set a match.